On Our 4 Year Anniversary

Though I have many things to write about [so look out for future posts this week], I think I will wish my boyfriend, Sal, a Happy Anniversary! It's been 4 years since he asked me out, and I don't regret saying yes... though there are some days [kidding..]

He asked me out four years ago on a baseball field that had frozen over, a few blocks from his house. I have to admit it was rather romantic, and I guess I couldn't help but say yes. He had planned to ask me out a couple days earlier when we went to the city to see the tree, on the roof of the Top of the Rock. I was too nervous, and didn't want anything to be ruined so I told him not to ask me out then, I guess I saw it coming. I'm glad I waited it out though, it just proved to me that he really cared for me and was willing to wait, even though he wishes to this day that he had asked me out on the roof.

Although we've had our rough patches, and what couple hasn't, we have been through it all. I wouldn't change anything, because it has brought us closer, and allowed us to change with each other for the better of course.

When I first said I love you, I must admit I had no idea what love was.. having just broken up with my previous boyfriend 7 or 8 months prior, I was broken and confused. Being in a relationship wasn't all that it was hyped up to be, but maybe that was because I was in a relationship with the wrong person. Being with the right person, who loves you for you and accepts every bit of you, makes the relationship that much better. Now, with each passing day Sal has shown me what love really is, and I learn something new about him that I love. It's honestly an amazing feeling and I wouldn't trade it for anything. I guess it's like people say... "you'll just know."

I can't wait for the next few years with the boy, knowing that the future holds an engagement, wedding, and babies. He's got a hold on my heart, and I can't seem to break away, but I don't mind, as long as he protects it and cherishes it, I think I'll be okay. Not only is he my protector, but he's my best friend. He knows just what to say to make me smile or laugh when I'm feeling down or upset. He's up for any adventure I throw at him, and he even takes me on wild rides that I don't even think I'll ever be prepared for. It's as if every day opens up a brand new chapter in our book, and I can't wait to see how this story unfolds.

[2007; 2011]

Tonight we will be attending his brother's band's Christmas show, and then we will be headed into the city to see the tree and just enjoy each other's company.

12.17.07. I love you Salvatore Michael always and forever. 

Wedding Bliss

Exactly one month ago I attended the most beautiful wedding of two of my closest friends. I met these two individuals when I began working at ShopRite, one my boss, and the other my co-worker. I never would have guessed that they'd get married, at least not when I first started working. They quickly became close though, and their friendship developed into something more, something everlasting. We would hang out outside of work, and I soon began thinking, these two are going to be married, and years later - they are.

The ceremony was outside and absolutely breathtaking. I couldn't sit still, waiting for the wedding to begin and when I saw my friend, I was speechless. She looked gorgeous! I made sure to see the groom's face though as soon as she came into view - because I mean that's the best part right?! [at least that's what 27 Dresses says] My favorite part was when they mixed the sand together, a purple & a white, together forever.

The reception only got better. I was able to congratulate them and wish them the best of luck in their marriage. I still couldn't believe two friends of mine had just gotten married. Everyone that knew I was attending this wedding kept saying ..."well you're getting to that age now!" I just shook my head, about thirty times. These two individuals are several years older than me, and I have to say the perfect age to get married, me ... not so much!

Sal and I with the Bride and Groom! 

                  

                                                                                     

                                    The cupcake party favors I made!

               The beautiful wedding cake!

They even had a photo-booth, that you can bet I went into more than once! 

The night consisted of dancing, laughing, drinking, and plenty of eating! We stayed at the hotel afterwards, since the wedding was down the shore... but not before we went to the bar! I know they had the wedding of their dreams because it was absolutely perfect. 

A House Fit For Us

12.17.07. It honestly seems like just yesterday that Sal asked me to go out with him, while we were ice skating on a frozen baseball/soccer field. And yet, three years has passed already. Yesterday was our three year anniversary [wow]. We joke around saying that we're surprised we haven't killed each other yet; because we're honestly a lot to handle, and together we're even worse [haha]. We joke around way too much, and we're both stubborn as anything. So it's quite interesting to be around us. 

So, unlike our past anniversaries, which Sal has gone all out on each and every time, we decided to have a relaxing quiet night. I had work until 6 and Sal didn't get out of work until about 8ish. We went to Target with my brother and his girlfriend, who are home from college [ yippe!!!] and bought gingerbread houses to make. We wanted to have a contest to see who could make the better gingerbread house. I knew the night was going to be great, as soon as people started staring at us laughing so hard in Target.  It started off quite funny, and it only got funnier...

Considering there were two different houses in the box, I chose the one above.

While Sal chose the bigger one, with the broken tree.

Sal's gingerbread house still looks descent, but when he got out the whipped cream, I knew we were in for a good laugh. 

The whipped cream didn't just end up of the gingerbread house, but also on...

my brother...

his girlfriend & ....

Sal

I was actually the first one with whipped cream on the face, but since I had the camera, no pictures were taken. 

Yesterday wasn't about how much money was spent, or where we went, or even what clothes we were wearing, it was about being together, and bonding as individuals. Over these past three years, I've learned that you can't stop someone from being who he/she is, especially when those characteristics you were trying to stop, were the ones you fell in love with in the first place. Not only that but when you let loose a little, and not try to be so perfect all the time or have everything go your way, it night ends up exactly how you pictured it anyways, just with a lot less stress. 

I can't really explain to anyone how much this boy really means to me. Sure we fight, but what healthy couple doesn't? He's seriously my best friend, and I would have no idea who to tell all of my stories to. He's always there for me with open ears, whenever I need to talk, which could be for hours. I am so thankful I have him in my life. These past three years would not have been as joyous, fun, or exciting without him. 

I love you Sal.

Even if you can't make a gingerbread house... there's always room at mine :]

Living the Married Life

No, I didn't get married this past weekend, but I did get to experience how it would be if I was married to Sal [without worrying about bills, money, or other nonsense things that create arguments in the some of the lives of those who are married]. My parents and brother went to Pennsylvania Sunday-Tuesday, for my brother's college orientation. Therefore, Sal stayed over. It was pure bliss. Sunday was spent relaxing. After a trip to A&P, Sal made dinner ...

then friends came over to enjoy the fire pit & roast some marshmallows. We not only enjoyed smore's, but also Apples to Apples & Scatagorries. I absolutely love nights filled with laughter and conversations about nothing in particular. The night ended with me in his arms :]


Monday was filled with goodbyes before work, a delicious pizza dinner, surprise flowers, a winning softball game [on my part] with my biggest fan in the crowd, and a relaxing night with more friends. 


I immediately felt like his wifey when he opened my front door with a frozen pizza & flowers, screaming "honey I'm home!"

No matter how corny that sounds it was adorable! We then fell asleep in each others arms.


Today my family came back home and I enjoyed learning all about where my brother would spend the next four years of his life. 


I know marriage isn't always bliss, but I truly believe it can be without the worries of the non-important things in life.

At times I bleed orange and blue...

Due to the METS winning against the Yankees last weekend, the Empire State Building lit up blue and orange. It was absolutely amazin' to see my team colors up there for all to see. Therefore, S and I went to 'our spot' and caught the amazin' scene on camera. 

Ahh the joys of the city... or at least the view of it.

However, after awhile, my boy got a little tired of just staring at the Empire State Building and this is what occurred..

But that's why I love him :]

It's been awhile

Because of the strenuous amount of school work I've been bombarded with, I have been unable to blog... I know, it's rather disheartening. Luckily, I've found a few extra minutes in my day to catch all of you up on a few happenings in my life. 

Valentine's Day has come and gone. Saturday, the day before Valentine's day, I was actually kicked out of my own house because my boyfriend had a surprise for me. I came back not too much later to find this...

My new fishes in a brand new tank! I loved it!! I was so surprised and not expecting them at all. I used to have a Beta fish, from down the shore that my boyfriend won for me, but unfortunately he died over the summer. :[ I was sooo happy and surprised. My boyfriend and I decided to name them Jack and Jill! [cute, right?]

Sunday, I received these bright and early....

I, also had to work an 8-hour shift at the local supermarket in my town, which wasn't fun at all. Many people were buying last minute flowers, as well as cards and chocolate. Afterwards, my boyfriend made reservations at Churrascos, a small Argentinean restaurant, which had amazing food! After our amazing dinner together, I went back to my boyfriend's house where we ate chocolate covered strawberries and watched Friends together. Perfect way to end a perfect day. It was amazing. He thinks he always has to go above and beyond, but it's not about the material things for me, just being with him would have made me the happiest girl in the world. I love him <3

How was everyone else's Valentine's day?