I celebrated my 21st just last week and I have to admit, I did so with class ;]. No I did not end up hugging a toilet at the end of the night, nor did I wake up with a horrible hangover like some of my friends. I drank just enough to enjoy myself and the company I was with.
The night prior to my actual birthday I went to dinner with some friends for my friend's birthday, since hers is the day before mine. Afterwards we went to a local bar, and I had a drink in my hand at 12:00 midnight. Well a shot first and then a drink, of course. I was lucky that some other friends decided to show up and I got to share my birthday morning with my closest friends, as well as friends I hadn't seen in awhile.
My friend, being the birthday girl the night before, handed her crown over to me. It was quite odd though; I was a whole year older, and yet I felt as if I was still just a child. I didn't feel any older, but I did feel slightly as if I needed to start accomplishing more as my teen years were gone, and I was becoming an adult, slowly but surely. However, the week of my birthday I decided that no thoughts would enter my mind about the future or even the week after. I wanted to enjoy my time with my friends, as well as my family.
After the bar, we headed over to the diner. I didn't eat anything, considering I was too happy and giddy, as well as taking care of my friend hugging the toilet. Unlike most girls though, I didn't become a b*tch and leave her there [although that thought entered my mind], I decided to make a joke out of it and even tried to take pictures. However, my other friend, my angel on my shoulder, told me no. Come on though, how funny would that have been?
Unexpected pictures are the BEST.
The following day, on my actual birthday, I got my license changed to the big girl license [ha] and got ready for the night. I, along with a bunch of friends and my family, went to 3Forty Grill in Hoboken. Although it was rather chilly, I'd say we had a rather warm gathering in celebration of my birthday.
Flirtini & Me ;]
My Delicious Dinner.
My Dessert - Sad I asked for my own candle?
My Love
My Friends & the Beautiful View of NYC
My Family
It's amazing to see how much I'm surrounded by love and passion.
Afterwards I went to another bar, this time in hoboken. However, upon my arrival, sliding into the bench to sit, I was struck with ... A SPLINTER in my leg! I was in the bathroom for about an hour trying to get it out! Finally I gave up, but not until the boss of the bar got me tweezers, and Sal's friend got me tweezers as well. It was just no use. After ripping my stockings, making friends in the one stall bathroom, and in tears, I left the bathroom and took a long sip of my margarita. Sal's friend who had joined us, was so angry that the manager didn't offer to pick up the check or buy me a drink, at least, that he went up and talked to her. She eventually caved and got me another margarita. I mean it was the least she could do, I thought. I didn't ask to have the splinter in me and spend an hour in the bathroom.
Splinter PIcture.
I swear those things were making me happier as the night went on!
My new friend!
After the bar and several discussions later telling me that I didn't need to go to the ER, we went home. The next morning my neighbor who is a nurse came over and told me to put VICKS VAPOR RUB on it for 24 hours and cover it with a BandAid and it should draw the splinter out. So I did. A little splinter wasn't going to stop me from going out with my softball team though!
My girls
Shots !
Softball Team... or at least the ones that matter!
I could not thank these individuals enough for celebrating my birthday with me, but who I really should be thanking is Salvatore. He has made me birthday so memorable. Without him I wouldn't have been able to go to the bar, a gorgeous, classy restaurant, another bar, and yet another bar. He paid for pretty much everything, besides a drink or two, in which my softball ladies and mom bought for me. It saddens me that my friends didn't buy me a drink or even suggest that they would. I mean it was my 21st birthday. However, I won't fret about little arguments like that, but I will always remember it.
The following morning, my brother [bless his soul] was able to get the splinter out.
The pin & the splinter [below it].
I'm almost positive we didn't get it all out, considering it seemed much longer when I was trying to get it out the first night, but I will not worry about it too much. I wanted to keep the splinter as a memento of my 21st birthday, but I lost it. Woops. At least I have a picture as proof!
Overall, I had such an amazing week and I look forward to what my 21st year has to bring me!