On Having an Active Relationship

I think it's great when you find that one person that you can go and workout with, whether it's classes at the gym, walking around the lake, or playing a sport together. For the past couple of weeks, Sal has been inspired by me to work out more. When we hang out on Saturdays we try and make our day active as possible... together. It's such a great way to push each other, and that's exactly what we do - he tells me to keep running, I tell him to slow down, ha just kidding - but really, he's right there by my side telling me to run faster, and go another round.

We usually jog around a lake, which is absolutely beautiful. I feel when you're surrounded by a beautiful landscape, with people just as motivated and active as you are, it becomes easier to work out. When we have time or the weather's nice, we become a little more competitive - whether it's in the batting cages, playing a game of basketball, or racing to the end of our jog.

It's an awesome feeling knowing the one you love can share this active lifestyle with you.

(right after the batting cages)

We hold ourselves accountable during the week by texting each other the workouts we did that day and  sending pictures of our healthy meals. Not only do we make it count during our every day schedules, but even when we're on vacation, like our time in Vermont - we made sure 100% of our vacation was spent actively from hiking and biking to using the gym and horseback riding. It was incredible how much happier and relaxed we were each and every day we were there (I mean I'm sure the calming atmosphere helped, but so did exercising everyday)!

It helps that we're both willing to try new things - whether it's swimming with sharks, hiking up a mountain, or indoor rock climbing. It helps keep the relationship fresh and new (even after 5 years), and keep us happy and healthy - together.